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Economic Mediation in Family Law Cases

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Economic Mediation Program Overview

Contested divorce cases are first reviewed by an early settlement panel (ESP). This panel, made up of two experienced divorce attorneys, will recommend a settlement in the case. If the parties do not agree with the recommendation, and there are unresolved financial disputes after ESP review, the court may order them to participate in economic mediation. Economic mediation can help divorcing couples find common ground to divide shared property and determine support.

Economic mediation is a means of resolving financial issues with a trained, impartial third party. It is designed to facilitate settlements in an informal, non-adversarial environment. Mediators do not represent either party and do not offer legal advice. Parties are encouraged to retain their own attorney for the mediation process. If they do not have an attorney, they may choose someone else to accompany them in mediation.

Benefits of mediation include:

  • Confidential proceedings.
  • The opportunity for the parties to create their own, mutually acceptable agreement.
  • Allowing parties to take an active role in resolving their dispute.
  • Saving both parties time and money.

All mediators on the roster of Judiciary-approved mediators have completed 40 hours of mediation training. Mediators on the roster with a domestic violence designation completed training that qualifies them to conduct Domestic Violence Economic Mediation. Mediators are attorneys and other experienced professionals in the financial or mental health fields.

After the first two hours, the mediation costs are paid by the parties.

The first two hours of mediation are free. These two hours include the time it takes for the mediator to prepare for the first session and for the session itself. Travel time is not included in the first two hours and mediators are not allowed to charge for their travel.

During the mediation, the mediator will let you know when the two free hours have been reached. Either party can then choose to end the mediation. If the mediation goes beyond the free two hours, the court decides the amount each party will be responsible for to cover the mediator’s fee.

Economic Mediation and Final Restraining Orders

Generally, the law prohibits mediation when there is an active final restraining order between the parties. The Domestic Violence Economic Mediation Program allows mediation only if the protected party (the person with the restraining order) requests it. The protected party must consent to amending the final restraining order to allow mediation. The protected party may terminate the mediation process at any time and for any reason. 

The protected party must initiate the request for economic mediation.

The protected party must

  1. Read and understand the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties 
  2. Meet with a domestic violence advocate or trained court staff; and
  3. Complete and file a certification which is a formal request to the court that the case be referred to economic mediation. It is also a request for the court to amend the Final Restraining Order to permit economic mediation. Filing the certification does not guarantee that the court will refer the case to the program.

After reviewing the certification and confirming that the protected party consents to economic mediation, the court will ask the other party if they agree to mediation. If they do not agree, they will be asked to provide an explanation. The court may still decide to refer the case to economic mediation.

If the court refers a case to economic mediation, both parties will work separately with court staff to agree on the selection of a mediator. If they are unable to agree, the court will assign one.

If there is a final restraining order, the parties will not be in the same room for mediation.

Domestic violence economic mediation takes place in a secure room at the courthouse where security is on site, or it may take place on-line using videoconferencing. Domestic violence economic mediation will not be conducted at the mediator’s office or any other location.

The mediator assigned to the case will use a process called “shuttle diplomacy” to facilitate the mediation. This means that each party will be in separate rooms the entire time, and the mediator will communicate with them separately. This eliminates direct communication between the parties. Similarly, if the mediation is conducted online, the parties will be in separate virtual meeting rooms and will not have any contact.

Only mediators who completed domestic violence mediation training are eligible to mediate cases where there is a restraining order between the parties.

The protected party can choose to end mediation at any time.

This program was created to give victims of domestic violence the same opportunity to resolve their case as litigants who do not have a restraining order. If the protected party does not feel comfortable about moving forward with economic mediation, they can let their attorney know. If they do not have an attorney, they can contact the court. This will not be held against them in any way.

The mediator cannot address other issues such as custody or parenting time.

This is prohibited by law and violates provisions of the Domestic Violence Economic Mediation program.

Read the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties and Frequently Asked Questions for Non-Protected Parties for more details about the program.

Mediators by County

If you want to become a mediator, you need to apply. Current mediators can change or update their roster status.

Mediators must complete the Economic Mediation Results Form after the mediation session.     

Mediators for Economic Aspects of Family Law

Mediator Qualifications Hourly Rate
Lorraine A. Abraham, Esq.
Cullen and Dykman
433 Hackensack Avenue
Hackensack, NJ 07602
Fax: (201) 488-5059
Robert A. Abrams, Esq.
Robert A. Abrams, PA
1127 Highway 35
Ocean Township, NJ 07712
Fax: (732) 517-0649
Charles C. Abut, Esq.
401 Hackensack Avenue, Suite 706
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Fax: (201) 488-1366

A graduate of Columbia University and Cornell University Law School, Mr. Abut has successfully mediated and arbitrated hundreds of cases. He is a court- accredited mediator by the NJ Administrative Office of the Courts, a fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers and has been repeatedly peer- selected for inclusion in Best Lawyers in America.

Approved for DV Cases
Lucy B. Agostini, Esq.
Agostini & Slattery, LLC
25 Pompton Avenue, Suite 201
Verona, NJ 07044
Fax: (973) 239-7633

I have practiced family law for 44 years. I have been a court approved mediator since 2014. I have successfully litigated and mediated many cases with complex financial issues. I am willing to conduct mediation in person or via Zoom and, if necessary, I will travel to either attorney's office. I will not charge for reasonable travel time.

Approved for DV Cases
Rachel Alexander, Esq.
The Alexander Group, LLC
119 West Valley Brook Road
Califon, NJ 07830
Fax: (908) 832-2221
Qualified Mentor
S. R. Allcorn, Esq.
Rabner, Allcorn, Baumgart & Ben Asher
52 Upper Montclair Plaza
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043
Fax: (973) 783-1524
Irene M. Amarel, Esq.
24 James Court
Princeton, NJ 08540
Jensen Annmarie, Esq.
Malamut & Associates
457 Haddonfield Road, Suite 500
Cherry Hill, NJ 08033
Fax: (856) 424-2032
Christine M. Antonelli, DSW
Antonelli & Associates, Inc.
2400 McClellan Avenue, Suite 101 East
Pennsauken, NJ 08109
Fax: (856) 488-4550
Jennifer C. Apell, Esq.
PO Box 974
Cherry Hill, NJ 08003
Nicholas C. Apicelli, Esq.
551 Lakehurst Road, 1st floor
Toms River, NJ 08755
Fax: (732) 286-3605
Howard F. Appelt II, Esq.
Johnson,Murphy,Hubner,McKeon,Wubbenhurst,Bucco &
51 Route 23 South
Riverdale, NJ 07457
Fax: (973) 835-1732
Rita A. Aquilio, Esq.
Lawrence Law LLC
776 Mountain Boulevard, Suite 202
Watchung, NJ 07069
Fax: (908) 645-1001

Ms. Aquilio practices extensively in the areas of divorce, child support, custody & post judgment issues. She represents clients in all types of matrimonial actions, from basic actions to complex valuation cases. She is a trained collaborative divorce attorney & a member of the IACP. Ms. Aquilio has trial experience, dispute resolution training and is a divorce arbitrator in matrimonial actions.

Dolores L. Aretsky, Esq.
45 North Broad Street
Ridgewood, NJ 07450
Fax: (201) 445-5867
Eric J. Aretsky, Esq.
Court Plaza East, 19 Main Street
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Fax: (201) 445-5867
Jodi Argentino, Esq.
Offit Kurman, PC
21 Main Street, Suite 158, Court Plaza South
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Fax: (732) 218-1835
Mitchell S. Arons, Esq.
Arons & Solomon, P.A.
1 University Plaza, Suite 400
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Fax: (201) 487-9109
Carolann Aschoff, Esq.
Carolann M. Aschoff, P.C.
3279 Kennedy Boulevard
Jersey City, NJ 07306
Fax: (201) 653-8030

I have been an attorney for 31 years and am certified by the NJ Supreme Court as a matrimonial attorney. My practice has been devoted almost exclusively to matrimonial matters. I believe that a successfully mediated case leaves the parties in a much better position to go on with their lives, particularly if children are involved.

Francine M. Aster, Esq.
The Law Offices of Francine M. Aster, Esq.
685 Bloomfield Avenue, Suite 203
Verona, NJ 07044
Fax: (973) 239-7780

I have a general practice law firm but the majority of my time is spent handling Family Law issues. These issues include economic mediation, divorce and parenting coordinator.

Qualified Mentor
Thomas D. Baldwin, Esq.
150 John F. Kennedy Parkway
Short Hills, NJ 07078
Fax: (973) 315-4510